I have been wondering about the rules of attraction....
When you are a female, which is more important: to be physically beautiful or charming?
I always knew that you more with sugar than you do with vinegar but I'm not exactly sure what is the "it" factor. I have seen plain and even ugly women reel in the weaker species, other known as men, and I'm amazed. I guess if you are lacking in one area, you have to compensate in others. But I personally know that there is a lot that goes in to looking good and to be beat out by someone less attractive, well that is just plain unfair. (LOL)... I'm no charmer, so personally I know that anyone who dates me is superficial. Guys are usually amazed by how interesting I am and I do have a certain "Je ne sais quoi," but I wonder sometimes what they really want. Being docile is a trait that I see is quite appealing, it's like the cute puppy thing but I can never achieve that with my boca grande. Let's face it, I am a Black woman with Spanish descent, try to quiet the riot and endure my wrath. (LOL, just ask my ex boyfriends). Even though, I think i might get over on people a bit easier if I dumbed myself down, I have a hard time playing charades. It is cheesy to say but someone should like/love/want you for who you are and not what you look like or can potray....
Another thought from me
Be original
----- The Barbie Life
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