Seriously.

AS young women, we have to take care of ourselves and love hard but trust lightly. I am an advocate for female sexuality but with that comes responsibility. We need to make sure that women are educated and aware that we are in control of our minds and bodies. YOU decide what you do with your body and what is DONE TO IT. Too many times, I have been sadden to hear that young (even worse black) men are taking advantage of girls, particularly young ones. Young women are being forced to perform acts that are against their will and better judgment. Young men are forcing themselves onto girls and are disrespecting our sisters. When did it becomes okay to hurt someone?? When did it become okay to take pleasure in someone being in pain? I remember LL Cool J writing about how that it isn't fucking cute to hurt a woman and stick your chest out like you have accomplished something. God forbid that the girl would've been your sister, your mother, hell even your daughter. There is an old saying that men only value the woman above him (his mother) and the woman below him (his daughter). I find this to be ironic. People say that chivalry is dead but plain out human and civil respect is dead. Being noble, being a man of your word, being loyal are no longer part of the male demographic. Since we are surely deprived of valuable male role models in our lives, we have to protect ourselves. Our fathers, brother, uncles, boyfriends are no longer concerned with us, it is time that we be responsibile for ourselves. Portray the woman that you want him to know you as, be respectful of yourself and if he doesn't respect you then he doesn't deserve to be in your life. Watch for warning signs of bitch behaviors like short tempers, homosexual tendencies and other suspicious activities. Protect yourself, get in the habit of practicing safe sex because STDs are real. I can't tell you how to conduct your personal life but anything you do, do it for you. Don't do it to please him (or her). Don't do it because it is common. I know I'm preaching a bit but I really want young girls to understand that we hold the power. I have been there, in situations where I have been influenced and ended up hurt. I'm sure every woman has but you make the difference. You are the difference. Someone will only do what you let them. And if you didnt let them, then there are ways to handle those situations. Love you sista.

OH YEAH and for my bitch niggas. out there; NO MEANS NO and STOP MEANS STOP.Anything after that is RAPE.

I urged all women if they are ever in a situation where they have been violated to seek immediate attention and help.

You're Not Alone


24 hour hotline and online help: 1.800.656.HOPE and www.rainn.org

Like Pac said Keep Ya Head up.